My fiancé is divorced, is that a problem?
As Catholic Christians, we believe in the sanctity of marriage; we also realize that we are only too human. When a marriage ends through divorce, it is often prima facie evidence that the essential element of marriage did not exist to maintain the bond. Remarriage is allowed in order to avoid further human tragedy. From this perspective the WRB solemnizes remarriages with the joy and the peace of Christ.
My fiancé is not Christian, is that a problem?
Of course not. We understand that love does not recognize religious, ethic, cultural, racial or any other bounds. All are welcome.
Will we need to attend any kind of marriage preparation classes?
Your marriage represents a change in how you see yourself and your relationship with others. It is both exciting and frightening. You can control only part of what happens to you. Your family and friends are here to support you and so is the community as a whole. Marriage preparation courses and individual counseling can help. We encourage you to take time to prepare yourselves and will assist you as time and distance allow. Your marriage will work only if both of you are committed to making it work. Ideally, the priest would like to meet with you at least once before the ceremony.
Why Choose Us??
We off the most professional, complete service. We treat each and every couple as we would want our children to be treated-- with respect, as adults, as equals, as a loving couple simply seeking the most personal and intimate wedding ceremony possible. We realize that your wedding is one of the most important days of your lives and that a ceremony can fulfill your dreams. Dreams we share.
How do we obtain a copy of our ceremony?
Just ask and we will prepare you a personalize copy.
Does it ever get "OLD"?
Heavens no!! It never gets old making people happy and help them fulfill there dreams.
What legal issues will we need to address?
To be legally married, you will need to have a license from the county clerk or the state department of registration for the place in which the ceremony will occur. Often, there is a short waiting period, a definite expiration date and sometimes other requirements. After the ceremony, the priest will make sure that your license is signed and sent to the appropriate agency. He will also provide a marriage certificate for your more immediate use. You will need to have this or a document issued by the county clerk to change driver’s licenses, bank accounts, insurance plans and other legal documents after the wedding.
What must I do to have you officiate at our wedding?
The first step is to complete and submit a Marriage Petition. This will allow us to calendar your wedding and begin to plan your ceremony with you. Ideally, we would like to personally meet at least once with a couple. When this is not practical, email and telephone conversations may substitute. We will will work with you to discuss marriage and help you plan your wedding. Our pricing page discusses those issues.
Peace and Joy!
Contemporary Catholic Christians are often searching for a non-judgmental, sacramental experience different from that offered by the institutional churches. You may want to have a Catholic wedding but may not be permitted, for various reasons, by the institutional church. We offer you an alternative.
Those entering into second marriages, those experiencing religious differences with the church and others will find openness and acceptance with the WRB.
Here are some of the most frequently asked questions about the White Robed Benedictines and our marriage services.
Are there any restrictions as to where the ceremony can take place?
The choice of location for your wedding is yours. Depending on weather and other factors ceremonies may be held out-of-doors. While we do not maintain any church buildings, we are welcome as visiting clergy in most denominations. You may also be able to use interdenominational churches and chapels for more formal settings. Hotels, banquet halls, private homes, museums and other locales are other options. A wedding consultant or the yellow pages can yield additional suggestions.
Can we personalize the ceremony in any way?
Of course, you can. This is YOUR wedding. We will be pleased to assist you in personalizing your wedding ceremony. There are many ways in which this can be accomplished. Options for readings, both from the scriptures and other sources, which speak your marriage are available. Vows can be written by you or chosen from more traditional options. Ceremonies which speak to various ethnic groups such as the coin, rope and veil, hand fasting or jumping-the-broom ceremonies can also be accommodated. Unity candles, roses to parents and other more traditional activities can be easily included. Discussing your wishes with us is the best way to assure that your day is special.
